About Erika & Gerda Carina
"The Art of Old Money Elegance by Erika & Gerda Carina” is a concept and lifestyle created by Erika Kolbakov and Gerda Carina — born from a shared desire to bring more grace and elegance into people’s lives.
Erika Kolbakov is a respected etiquette educator and the author of “Etiquette and Good Manners for the Whole Family“ published in Estonian. Erika teaches high-level social and business etiquette of the Western world, based on classic English etiquette and elegance.
Since the roots of traditional etiquette and refinement lie in England (and France), Erika has been training and furthering her expertise in London with leading professionals in the field since 2012. She has also gained knowledge from a professionally recognized American etiquette trainer. In her teaching, Erika aims to rely on sources that are both credible and relevant in today’s world.
Gerda Carina is a visual artist and international portrait photographer whose journey began with a passion for storytelling through images. From her beginnings in London to her creative journey through Monaco, Dubai, Morocco, and Bali, she has collaborated with a wide range of prestigious names — including the British Royal Family, Vogue Arabia, Versace, and Esteban Ocon — while cultivating a distinctive style of gold-infused wall art that captures strength, elegance, and stillness.
Together, Erika and Gerda have created "The Art of Old Money Elegance by Erika & Gerda Carina” — immersive offerings that reflect the grace and quiet strength of legacy living. Inspired by the psychology of old money, these experiences invite individuals, especially women, to step into their most polished, calm, and purposeful selves.
It is believed that elegance is not merely an act, but a state of being —
a quiet confidence,
a cultivated grace,
a depth of presence that is felt more than seen.
Through personalized sessions, sophisticated dining experiences, and curated environments, we restore values that endure:
Discretion. Courtesy. Beauty. Self-respect. Elegance.
In addition, we offer exclusive fine dining table experiences for couples and larger groups around the world, in locations such as Estonia, Lake Como, Monaco, London, and beyond. These gatherings bring together fine dining and timeless etiquette, offering guests the opportunity to experience presence and grace.
In a world that often values loud over lasting, we guide you to choose the opposite.
To invest in yourself the way one would care for a family heirloom — with love, discernment, and patience.
Whether through etiquette refinement, graceful appearance, or artistic expression, our mission is to help you embody a life of elegance — not just for today, but for decades to come.
For bookings or bespoke experiences, contact:
gerda@oldmoneyetiquette.com